I never took but one gold lesson when I picked the game up. I did break 80 a bit before two years and just lost interest. I learned by watching people play that were good and primarily practice. I can read every harp boof there is but a good days practice will be better for me.
The reason my wife gives me sideways glances, I was always in fights. And I Really can’t tolerate idiots near me. I used to be in the Royal Marines and I was a doorman for many years. So she always keeps an eye on me and is able to charm idiots away from me. I’m not a powder keg anymore too old for that but as I’ve grown older my tolerance for ignorant people has slowly been chipped away.
I would always just look at a bully, smile and say I am very glad I am note you. They have a desired result and when they do not get it they go elsewhere, especially if other people that heard it laughed.
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Now listen up Y’all!
Playing in a ‘flash’ meeting - and also in a regularly formed meeting/group - playing the harmonica (or any instrument) is an exercise in brotherhood - and democracy!
I don’t believe anyone has the option - however good or respected s/he is to just exclude people in a group wanting to play.
Surely in a group of nascent musicians - we should encourage and promote the joy and skill - of playing the harmonica - yes, through negotiated example - not by arrogant assumed superiority?
You can all be legends in your own bedroom - but not in a ‘public’ endeavour. If you’re bloody good on the harp - then just rest easy knowing you are - and ‘spend’ your skill wisely and generously helping others. There’s a guy on here who is a shining example with the right attitude! (Thank you David.)
I used to run a folk-music night in a local pub. And I know these things - and I’m sure of my ground. It’s the music itself from which the synergy emanates. It’s not a forum for showing off. Rest assured your skill will be quietly acknowledged and respected. It will. And your generosity will be deeply, and quietly, honoured. Keep your insecurities at home.
So share your toys - and play nicely!
Regards Charlie
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I’m playing Saturday in Birmingham (UK) with some good friends who have a kick ass band. Looking forward to it.
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I would usually bite off a finger or a nose. Not so much anymore but I found it very effective against bullies. Even now in my 60’s my old reputation is enough to keep idiots away, failing that my wife charms the hell out of em.
@CharlieCharlieSucker - just wanted to let you know I edited your post. This is a harmonica forum, not a politics forum. Let’s try to keep conversations on-topic about our amazing little instrument that we all love and cherish!
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